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Football => Richmond Rant => Topic started by: Mr Magic on December 28, 2010, 10:03:49 AM
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Got this for chrissie and have just finished it in a couple of days.
Pretty raw and mostly honest book from Ben.
A good read so far as footy books go.
Have to say though my opinion of him isn't all that great after reading it.
Comes across as a pretty high maintenance and often selfish individual who just happened to be outstanding at playing football(mostly pre 2006 until his drug addiction took hold).
His lifestyle has caused an enormous amount of grief to those closest to him and is very lucky to have such a good family and it seems girlfriends until they have moved on.
Lucky the Tiges gave him another go and seems genuinely grateful for it.
Hopefully whatever he does post football he can stay off the gear and get his life together but after reading this account I wouldn't be confident of it.
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yeah, I too got the book, have quite enjoyed it, pretty well what i expected, by his own admission he has acted selfishly and there are signs of genuine remorse for those that have been hurt along the way, fair queue too :shh
The RFC chapter is fairly brief, a few standouts for mine...he's all over Newy as a leader, couldn't speak highly enough of him. As he is with reepct to Wayne Campbell in fact he is a recurring theme in his time at RFC in supporting Cuz to overcome ea hurdle through his time...and the last are comments surrounding Connors and JR8...which in summ if Cuzz achieved nothing else in his time at punt Rd, he can take BIT of credit for the turnaround of this pair. There it is his time at punt rd, pretty well summed up in 3 lines...oh and he spoke highly of how the fans embraced him, last game et al :gotigers
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christmas gift for me to looking forward to reading it on the flight to and from work
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christmas gift for me to looking forward to reading it on the flight to and from work
finished it now enjoyed the read. Ben surely has experienced a large slice of life, what stood out most to me was -1 the initial lack of support from the WCE they where more concerned about the footy clubs image rather than the humanity they should of been offering the player and -2 the depth of love compassion and support from his family esp his dad I would recomend it to anyone with a passing interest in football or who has a friend entering the drug culture
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Got Cuz's and Richo's for chrissy, have not read any yet but looking forward to it!
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I have been reading this book and enjoyed you commentary
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christmas gift for me to looking forward to reading it on the flight to and from work
finished it now enjoyed the read. Ben surely has experienced a large slice of life, what stood out most to me was -1 the initial lack of support from the WCE they where more concerned about the footy clubs image rather than the humanity they should of been offering the player and -2 the depth of love compassion and support from his family esp his dad I would recomend it to anyone with a passing interest in football or who has a friend entering the drug culture
I'm surprised his girlfriend stayed with him for that long
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If u mean may Lee- she was/
Edited for leagal reasons: sorry OX and I know you hate this but you cannot make accusations against someone unless you have proof. Not saying it is fair or right just saying that's the way it is - the law can be an ass
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I got it for Christmas as well. A good read as far as footy stories go - seemed a fairly stuff account. It was good to get an insight into what was going on behind the scenes as opposed to what I saw reported.
Perverse as it sounds, I understood how a cocaine addiction actually drove a player to become the best he could be. It made perfect sense to me... strange
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I got it for Christmas as well. A good read as far as footy stories go - seemed a fairly stuff account. It was good to get an insight into what was going on behind the scenes as opposed to what I saw reported.
Perverse as it sounds, I understood how a cocaine addiction actually drove a player to become the best he could be. It made perfect sense to me... strange
I certainly found it a stretch Benny looking to at least partly blame prescribed meds for his dabbling in illegal ones.