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Title: My time with Jim Stynes
Post by: Ruanaidh on March 20, 2012, 05:06:37 PM
15 years ago I asked Jim to be a guest speaker at the opening of a program for ex-offenders at the Port Phillip Prison. This program was not connected with Reach but to his great credit he accepted.

The program opening was scheduled for a Monday morning, 2 days after he played for the Demons on the Saturday. When he arrived he was obviously very sore and found it hard to sit in the small chair provided. But he never complained. He was an absolute Gentlemen and when he rose (with some difficulty)  to speak  he told two wonderful stories that had the room transfixed. I will recount these stories later tonight.

This man was special and when people speak of his aura it is no exaggeration. I am not religious but Jim was so I leave you with this Irish blessing:

“I follow the plan God laid for me. I saw His face, I heard His call, I took His hand and left it all.”

Vale Jim Stynes
Title: Re: My time with Jim Stynes
Post by: bojangles17 on March 20, 2012, 07:17:54 PM
cheers RH, great story, I had enormous admiration for the life that Jim Stynes lead. His legacy will live on...my condolences to his wife and young children
Title: Re: My time with Jim Stynes
Post by: Willy on March 20, 2012, 09:00:12 PM
A true gentleman.
RIP.
Title: Re: My time with Jim Stynes
Post by: WA Tiger on March 20, 2012, 09:38:44 PM
Very tragic, football will miss this man immensely, my condolences to all his family and close friends.....RIP Jim....
Title: Re: My time with Jim Stynes
Post by: eliminator on March 21, 2012, 06:34:34 AM
Rest in Peace. My deepest sympathies to his family. His courage was truly remarkable in fighting that dreadful illness
Title: Re: My time with Jim Stynes
Post by: Ruanaidh on March 21, 2012, 06:40:06 AM
15 years ago I asked Jim to be a guest speaker at the opening of a program for ex-offenders at the Port Phillip Prison. This program was not connected with Reach but to his great credit he accepted.

The program opening was scheduled for a Monday morning, 2 days after he played for the Demons on the Saturday. When he arrived he was obviously very sore and found it hard to sit in the small chair provided. But he never complained. He was an absolute Gentlemen and when he rose (with some difficulty)  to speak  he told two wonderful stories that had the room transfixed. I will recount these stories later tonight.

This man was special and when people speak of his aura it is no exaggeration. I am not religious but Jim was so I leave you with this Irish blessing:

“I follow the plan God laid for me. I saw His face, I heard His call, I took His hand and left it all.”

Vale Jim Stynes
Sorry for the delay.

The first story involved a scientist who had been unable to solve a medical quandary. As he walked along the seaside littered with 'beached' starfish he noticed a young boy throwing them back to see one by one. When he stated to the boy that there were so many and "How could he expect to save them all", the boy replied: "I know that,  but I can save this one" . 

The second involved a man serving a life sentence in jail for murder and his 2 sons. One was also in gaol for murder, the other a successful father and professional. When asked by an investigative Journalist why they believed their lives turned out so, both independently replied: "With a father like mine what would you expect"!

Jim obviously told these allegorical stories with much more literary subtlety than I just did....but if you look closely at his life you will see why they were important to him and the audience at the time.   
Title: Re: My time with Jim Stynes
Post by: Smokey on March 21, 2012, 07:03:54 PM
Was an inspirational person who transcended boundaries of class, ethnicity and religion with a level of drive, empathy and compassion lacking in most.  The world is greater for his being and poorer for his passing.

Vale Jim.