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Re: Hardwick splits from wife
« Reply #120 on: January 11, 2021, 12:23:35 PM »
Footy supercoach Damien Hardwick 'was seen arm-in-arm with his mistress LONG before he was caught out by his wife at AFL quarantine hub' - as Sam Newman shares bombshell details about their relationship

Sam Newman and Rod 'Rocket' Gillett said pair were spotted 'arm-in-arm' in May.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9124891/AFL-Tigers-coach-Damien-Hardwick-reportedly-seen-arm-arm-mistress-long-COVID-hub.html


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Damien Hardwick breaks silence on shock divorce (7news)
« Reply #121 on: January 11, 2021, 12:31:53 PM »
Damien Hardwick breaks silence on shock divorce

7news
11 January 2021


Dimma - "Well listen, I can understand the interest. My life is pretty much very much public. What I would ask though is my personal life is very much that - 'personal'. So if we all can step back and give everyone some time and space that would be appreciated, thanks."

Do you have the full support of the club?

Dimma - "I would think so. At the end of the day we've been together for a long time. It's what the Richmond club do, they support their people."

Will you talk to the players today about what has happened?

Dimma - "I will today, absolutely."


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Re: Hardwick splits from wife
« Reply #122 on: January 11, 2021, 01:18:51 PM »
Rubbish bin journalism at its finest.

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Re: Hardwick splits from wife
« Reply #123 on: January 11, 2021, 03:27:09 PM »
Please post more quality Daily Mail content. I love getting my information from a “reliable” source

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Re: Hardwick splits from wife
« Reply #124 on: January 11, 2021, 06:53:02 PM »
Damien Hardwick's personal life has taken centre stage as the Tigers returned to Punt Road for the first time since their premiership. Despite claims of a rift with his captain, the coach says he has the full support of players and club officials. @TomBrowne7 #7NEWS

https://twitter.com/7NewsMelbourne/status/1348535283797479425

Cotch is shown telling the media he's told them he isn't speaking to them.


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Re: Hardwick splits from wife
« Reply #125 on: January 11, 2021, 08:19:40 PM »

Cotch is shown telling the media he's told them he isn't speaking to them.



Yep Cotch didn't look happy.

Still think it would have been better if Cotch had fronted the media with Jack.

Circus will continue until Dimma and Cotvh do full pressers

It shouldn't need to be that way but... it's probably the best chance of ending the circus

Though dopey Jon Patton has certainly helped  :facepalm
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Re: Hardwick splits from wife
« Reply #126 on: January 11, 2021, 09:37:58 PM »

Cotch is shown telling the media he's told them he isn't speaking to them.



Yep Cotch didn't look happy.

Still think it wou.d have bewn better if Cotch had fronted the media with Jack.

Circus will continue until Dimma and Cotvh do full pressers

It shouldn't need to be that way but... it's probably the best chance of ending the circus

Though dopey Jon Patton has certainly helped  :facepalm

Agree Re: Cotchin and Dimma.
I'd be very surprised if that were to happen.
Things are never what they seem.

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Re: Hardwick splits from wife
« Reply #127 on: January 11, 2021, 11:17:19 PM »
It’s probably a bit raw, if Cotch is a bit too honest with the Media it might make things worse than they are.

Time heals, but not always, so hoping and praying there’s a process being developed to address if there are any hard  feelings

 

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Re: Hardwick splits from wife
« Reply #128 on: January 12, 2021, 10:40:56 AM »

Cotch is shown telling the media he's told them he isn't speaking to them.



Yep Cotch didn't look happy.

Still think it would have been better if Cotch had fronted the media with Jack.

Circus will continue until Dimma and Cotvh do full pressers

It shouldn't need to be that way but... it's probably the best chance of ending the circus

Though dopey Jon Patton has certainly helped  :facepalm

Cotchin would have had to field questions about his wife. Jack was the option to go with to neutralize some of the stupid media questions (and you can read that either way) although he still copped a few

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Re: Hardwick splits from wife
« Reply #129 on: January 12, 2021, 11:28:44 AM »
I thought Cotch was perfect. Said he didn’t want to talk, was asked to talk and said it again reinforcing his tone.
He wasn’t happy about being asked the same question twice.

He allows his wife a voice, that doesn’t mean he agrees with it, god knows I don’t always agree with my wife on things ..... including this saga!
“I find it nearly impossible to make those judgments, but he is certainly up there with the really important ones, he is certainly up there with the Francis Bourkes and the Royce Harts and the Kevin Bartlett and the Kevin Sheedys, there is no doubt about that,” Balme said.

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Re: Hardwick splits from wife
« Reply #130 on: January 15, 2021, 04:13:28 AM »
“EVERYONE BUTT OUT”: BLIGHT COMMENTS ON HARDWICK SPLIT

BY SEN
14 January 2021


Malcolm Blight believes it is nobody else’s business what happens between a coach and his wife or partner.

After Richmond coach Damien Hardwick and wife Danielle recently split up, Blight insists it need not be an issue for anybody bar those closest to the situation.

“If I can read the stats right, one in two people get divorced now. That’s all the stuff I read on the social pages,” he said on Sportsday SA.

“It’s going to happen.

“It happened to me at North Melbourne. Ron Barassi divorced or separated his first wife when we were there.

“You know what? It was none of my business. None of the dressing room’s business. It is only ever two people’s business.

“Everyone butt out.”

The former Adelaide and Geelong coach does not believe Hardwick’s personal life will at all interfere with the Tigers and their quest for three straight premierships.

“I saw David Parkin go through it, I saw ‘Barass’ go through it,” he added.

“I’ve seen a lot of people go through it and they still held up the premiership cup a year or two later.

“It is a personal issue.

“I’m telling you now, players don’t worry about that. They worry about getting a kick and trying to win a game of footy.

“Once again, it’s none of the players’ business.”

Blight also believes there is too much emphasis placed on the perceived extra pressure on AFL coaches these days.

“Something else, I’m not sure I read all this right, but I think (Alastair) Clarkson had a go and said the pressures of the job are getting everyone,” he said further.

“I’ll guarantee you now, the one in two that are getting divorced, there’s pressures on them. There’s pressure on a bloke driving a truck, there’s pressure on CEOs. There’s CEOs all around the world who are going to lose their jobs.

“There is no more pressure on a football coach. That is an unbelievably overrated statement. The whole world, in that regard, has been under pressure.

“Every job is under pressure.”

https://www.sen.com.au/news/2021/01/14/everyone-butt-out-blight-comments-on-hardwick-split/

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Can it be business as usual at Hardwick's Richmond? (Age)
« Reply #131 on: January 15, 2021, 05:29:14 PM »
Can it be business as usual at Hardwick's Richmond?

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January 15, 2021


On Monday at Punt Road the Tigers' senior players and triple premiership coach Damien Hardwick returned to training in the now familiar position as defending premiers.

Hardwick addressed his marriage break-up briefly and politely in public to waiting television cameras, then in private with his players, a week after the club confirmed they had "no concerns ... under club policy" that he was now in a relationship with a female member of the administration.

While captain Trent Cotchin made it clear he didn't want to talk to waiting media, it was left to champion forward Jack Riewoldt to declare the situation "business as usual" on the football front.

Riewoldt answered as best he could questions about Hardwick's separation that, at the very least, surprised and saddened those close to the 48-year-old coach and his family.

Although Riewoldt's description rang true for those at the club on Monday when they saw Hardwick - who despite occasional public outbursts of frustration generally adopts a "never explain, never complain" attitude - bounce in to work ready to go, the effect on the club remains to be seen.

The coach knows what is required of him to do his job well, having admitted after last year's grand final that his reluctance to accept COVID-19 restrictions affected the team, saying "the reality is if I'm struggling, the players are certainly going to feed off that energy" .

He also understands why some players are shocked at what has happened and appreciates they will need time and raw conversations to adjust to the new light in which some - certainly not all - of his most loyal lieutenants now see him.

But his demeanour allowed most players to maintain a guise that suggested if the personal issues were to have any impact on the club they would be minimal.

They showed in 2020 that they could overcome all manner of distractions, including Hardwick's internal struggles, defeating Geelong in a hard-fought grand final. Early wins this season will push the very public private matter well into the background because for all the posturing from clubs that's what matters most.

That doesn't mean senior people at the club are underestimating what lies ahead as there are very few road maps for how modern, often superficially virtuous, football clubs handle such matters despite the situation being a classic conjunction of events - a very public and long-standing personal relationship breakdown, and the interaction of a senior staff member with a more junior one, albeit in a separate section of the organisation.

Richmond may not have couched it in such terms, but the reality is that the senior coach in any club holds more cards than anybody bar the CEO and the president, both who have remained, to this point, silent on the matter publicly.

The club released a statement addressing that power dynamic, saying they were satisfied after examining their human resources policy that they were comfortable in workplace terms with the situation, as marketing executive Alexandra Crow did not report to the coach.

Beth Gaze, a professor at Melbourne University's Law School, says it appears from afar that the Tigers have handled the issue appropriately from that perspective.

"One of the concerns organisations have is that if someone has power over somebody else's career that there may be some favouritism and that can, of course, really poison the workplace and can make relationships difficult," Gaze said.

"The consequences of [such a relationship] should not rest on the woman or the more junior person and that is why organisations are in a sense saying if you are the senior person then it is your responsibility to make sure you have disclosed this and removed yourself from any control over their career.

"The rest of it is awkward but there is no way you can avoid those emotional consequences."

Given there is no way of avoiding the emotional fallout, management led by CEO Brendon Gale and president Peggy O'Neal will need to be on their game.

Even though football clubs, generally speaking, get on with the job (Richmond are not the only club dealing this summer with marriage breakdowns or interoffice relationships that not everyone within the office are celebrating), this turn of events has saddened many.

What effect the marriage breakdown will have on those at the club close to the coach and his wife remains unclear; as we have seen, Danielle Hardwick and daughters were embraced by the captain's wife, Brooke Cotchin, at Christmas.

Adding to the complexity is the fact the Tigers' extensive network of tight personal bonds - common in AFL clubs but rare in most other workplaces - have been cited as one of the secrets to the Tigers' recent success with the use of anecdotes and connected stories a key part of the coach's modus operandi in recent years as he established a tight bond with his players.

The notion of being a "Richmond man" and concepts of mindfulness sat nicely beside Hardwick's occasional public reference to Mrs Hardwick's influence on his thinking, words that smoothed his rough edges and endeared him to the public whenever he apologised for overstepping the mark.

Family and football even intertwined before the 2019 grand final in a moment captured in Konrad Marshall's book Stronger and Bolder when Hardwick gave each player a rock to write the name of the person they would dedicate their performance to as he argued it would make them more determined to succeed. He then held up a large rock carrying words revealing his own motivation, Danielle and family.

Such public and private expressions from the coach add another layer of complexity to managing the situation.

Despite all that, officials from other clubs share the Tigers' view that their performance won't be affected much, with the players' pride in their performance paramount and the leaders experienced enough to allow Hardwick's role to be one of alignment.

Many have been through change with Hardwick before as the coach began his career as a command-and-control coach who would stop drills midway to tell players where they should be and the decision they should make.

At that point Hardwick was less about finding time to have a coffee with players and more about using the time to talk about their positioning and what the numbers said about performance. His dress sense was chided, his down-to-earth nature and loyalty to them celebrated, but the emotional rollercoaster he took many at the club on was exhausting.

It wasn't until the nadir of 2016 that he overcame his controlling instinct to give his best decision-makers licence to play and gave fringe players roles that emphasised their strengths with their pace giving the Tigers numbers around the ball.

He, relaxed, opened himself up to learning and created a game plan that one assistant coach said boiled down to Richmond taking the ball forward under pressure.

They scored off turnover and players such as the skipper led the way in creating a group of low-possession, high-impact players.

The so-called "simple" game plan is now, after four years of refinement, described by one experienced assistant as like an orchestra that makes the difficult coordination of disparate parts seem effortless in their creation of a masterpiece.

It is a turnaround that has Hardwick on the verge of equalling such coaching greats as Kevin Sheedy, Allan Jeans, Ron Barassi, Tom Hafey, David Parkin and the man he has shared so much with, Alastair Clarkson, with four flags.

Richmond are sticking with the coach, as they have before in trying times, hoping for business as usual.

After such a dramatic 2020 it might seem business as usual but time will tell what the real impact will be in season 2021 with the exhausted Gale telling 3AW pre-Christmas that they will have no option but to get on with it.

"We’ve just got to find a way to recharge and re-energise and renew and we will, because that’s the way our caper rolls," Gale said.

https://www.theage.com.au/sport/afl/can-it-be-business-as-usual-at-hardwick-s-richmond-20210114-p56u8s.html

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Re: Hardwick splits from wife
« Reply #132 on: January 18, 2021, 08:39:54 PM »
“AWKWARD” HARDWICK SITUATION THREATENS TO “DERAIL” RICHMOND

BY SEN 10 HOURS AGO

Kane Cornes believes Damien Hardwick’s new relationship with a Richmond staff member and subsequent marriage breakdown could derail the club.

Hardwick and wife Danielle recently split, with the three-time premiership coach now seeing a younger member of the club’s commercial sales team.

Cornes is of the belief that this latest off-field scenario may have a negative impact on the Tigers as they chase a three-peat and fourth premiership in five years.

“Some off-season controversies, a little bit sensitive to speak about marriage breakdowns,” he said on SEN SA Breakfast.

“There were three of them, certainly well documented in the press. Nathan Buckley, Simon Goodwin and Damien Hardwick, the most controversial of those.

“I get the feeling it’s going to divide the Richmond Footy Club, there is no doubt about that, because of the fact Damien’s relationship is with a staff member from the football club.

“Also, Brooke Cotchin, the wife of Trent, has been pretty publicly supportive of Damien Hardwick’s ex-wife Danielle.

“I’m not sure how Richmond will function this year. I think it’s going to be awkward and it does threaten to derail their season and end the dynasty which has been at Richmond.

“So I’ll watch that one play out.”

Malcolm Blight also recently commented on the situation, insisting that the playing group will not worry about what’s happening in their coach’s personal life.

https://www.sen.com.au/news/2021/01/17/awkward-hardwick-situation-threatens-to-derail-richmond/
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Re: Hardwick splits from wife
« Reply #133 on: January 18, 2021, 09:25:03 PM »
Stopped reading after "Kane Cornes believes..." :shh
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Re: Hardwick splits from wife
« Reply #134 on: January 18, 2021, 11:11:44 PM »
More like Kane Cornes desperately hopes