I notice it's your son, 2JD, to which the most appropriate response would be to say "men" lol
Not to try and upset you further but there are some pretty terrible places in Africa for tourists. A girl I worked with was shot after her car was hijacked when travelling in Kenya. One of her friends was killed and two others seriously injured.
Hopefully, he'll be home soon. But I'm glad to hear him say he's okay, which must make you feel better.
Still, that's probably one of the worst messages a mum can get.