You guys don't have a romantic bone in your body. I think it is all sweet - better Bec than Princess Fiona (now that was really funny). Maybe it is true love. I went out with my husband 3 months after splitting up with his flatmate. Two weeks after we started going out we were making wedding plans (I just had to get my long planned o/s trip out of the way first). Fifteen and a half years, 2 kids, 3 cats and 9 fish later and we are still together. I hope, for their sakes, it all works out.