Sudden interest = overwhelming batch love
Fair enough
Demands = perhaps you being hyper sensitive to a fair challenge
definitely not
My simple view is that anything should be considered if the will of the overall forum requests it.
this is where we are miles apart. You seem to believe that every decision on how this site is/should be run or what it should do or not do somehow should be determined by the posters.
Not sure why that is to be honest with.
But that is not the way it is or ever has been.
As the owners of this site we have to and do make decisions, we make rules, administer them and we get that people don't like some of the things we've done.
We have had to deal with outside issues caused by the actions of people posting on this site. The people that cause the issues don't have to deal with these things. We (owners/mods) do; it is our responsibility and we take it seriously. I know people laugh and ridicule when I say it but we've had to do it.
Everything we do is with one constant in mind and that is we do what is best for the site, to protect it and keep it up and running. So we make calls independent of posters because we have to and simply we have the right too.
This is one of instances. We have made a call, we're comfortable with it and have no intention of changing it. People don't like it; I get that but it is the decision we've made. Not sure why folks won't accept it.
Resource, money etc take care of themselves if the desire is there - you should be comfortable with the way the resource is administered and the way money is collected/raised but that isn't beyond your scope of skill sets.If the will isn't there, then everyone plays on
Not sure what you mean here re the underlined bit
Can I ask why you wouldn't let the name OER go next to the player, whether you had any sort of contribution or not? I can understand protecting your image and your property but I don't understand how it can be construed in a negative way
Think I've covered part of this above
You've also answered the question in your question when you said "protecting your image and your property".
But in blunt terms, we are the owners of this site and we are not willing to give our permission for the site's name to be used so it cannot be used. It has nothing to whether we contribute or not. We are not sanctioning it as part of this site; that's the call we've made.