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Re: Nude Premiership Medal Photo
« Reply #60 on: October 11, 2017, 12:43:57 PM »
It may be disrespectful but getting police involved is over the top.

If the person is someone's partner I think it is a different situation. As a partner you have trust and a mutual love for one another. It is very different to a person you may have just met especially if you have had too much to drink. Exposing yourself to a drunk footballer and letting him take photos of you and then expecting them to stay private is naive. Of course it would depend if they explicitly said that they are not to be posted or shared makes it a different situation.
Do you think consent would have to be sought to post the nude private image or consent must be given NOT to post a private nude photo?
Your daughter came to you bawling and in distress..........
"Dad, I've done something stupid and now it's all over social media"

What happened sweety?

"I was out celebrating, I met a cute guy, we had a great time and we hooked up.
We were mucking around and I stupidly let him take a photo of me topless. I thought he was a nice guy and he said we'd meet up again. Next day my picture is all over social media. I'm so stupid!"


Question: What do you do Dad?
I have daughters so that is easy. I would tell her that she was stupid and that she's jeopardised her future employment. I can't blame the guy if she was so stupid.
It would be different if he took those photos without her consent.
What if she was adamant she let him take the photo but didn't agree or expect him to post them all over social media.
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Re: Nude Premiership Medal Photo
« Reply #61 on: October 11, 2017, 12:57:54 PM »
I think you are now bringing up unrealistic scenarios but I will still answer them.
When you are drunk you don't tend to ask for consent if someone allows you to photograph them nude. It is implied as they hardly know you but are still happy to strip. You probably don't even realise that they may not want you to share the photos. That is why they need to specifically tell you that they do not want them shared.
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Re: Nude Premiership Medal Photo
« Reply #62 on: October 11, 2017, 02:00:20 PM »
She wants re$pect now?

Re$pect yourself.
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Re: Nude Premiership Medal Photo
« Reply #63 on: October 11, 2017, 02:14:01 PM »
The Kid whoever it is, is probably going through hell right about now. What i want to know is, did he at least drop the anchor.
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Re: Nude Premiership Medal Photo
« Reply #64 on: October 11, 2017, 02:18:15 PM »
The Kid whoever it is, is probably going through hell right about now. What i want to know is, did he at least drop the anchor.


I must be getting old.


WTF does "drop the anchor" mean?


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Re: Nude Premiership Medal Photo
« Reply #65 on: October 11, 2017, 02:26:12 PM »
What if she was adamant she let him take the photo but didn't agree or expect him to post them all over social media.

Therein lies the case. Question:

IF he asked if he could send the picture to some mates. She said no. He said, what about about snapchat, she said no. He said, just to a few of the boys on snapchat. She says okay, but perhaps doesn't feel comfortable about even that.

Is there a case?

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Re: Nude Premiership Medal Photo
« Reply #66 on: October 11, 2017, 02:42:40 PM »
Anyone seen the other shot LOL

Let's just say it involves 3 medals

Still curious if this is a thing :shh

Not sure how much I can say on this one, but am (indirectly) fairly close to the source  :angel: :angel:

It may well blow up. Watch this space.

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Re: Nude Premiership Medal Photo
« Reply #67 on: October 11, 2017, 02:45:09 PM »
What if she was adamant she let him take the photo but didn't agree or expect him to post them all over social media.

Therein lies the case. Question:

IF he asked if he could send the picture to some mates. She said no. He said, what about about snapchat, she said no. He said, just to a few of the boys on snapchat. She says okay, but perhaps doesn't feel comfortable about even that.

Is there a case?

Yes there is a case. Consent isn't valid if the person is pressured or coerced into providing consent.

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Re: Nude Premiership Medal Photo
« Reply #68 on: October 11, 2017, 02:48:13 PM »
What if she was adamant she let him take the photo but didn't agree or expect him to post them all over social media.

Therein lies the case. Question:

IF he asked if he could send the picture to some mates. She said no. He said, what about about snapchat, she said no. He said, just to a few of the boys on snapchat. She says okay, but perhaps doesn't feel comfortable about even that.

Is there a case?

Yes there is a case. Consent isn't valid if the person is pressured or coerced into providing consent.
How much pressure is required to coerce?
If you say please, please please, is that coercion?
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Re: Nude Premiership Medal Photo
« Reply #69 on: October 11, 2017, 02:51:17 PM »
I think as a bloke you err on the side of caution. Respect yourself and respect others or treat others how you'd expect to be treated would be the better option.
In this case specifically better not share the photo with anyone and just keep it to yourself would be the safest and most respectful thing to do. Even if he shows his mates privately from his phone would be disrespectful but much better because the photos aren't going anywhere.

As I have daughters I'd expect them to do the same by respecting themselves and treating others how they'd want to be treated too.

If this happened to one of them then I'd be apoplectic.
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Re: Nude Premiership Medal Photo
« Reply #70 on: October 11, 2017, 02:55:03 PM »
What if she was adamant she let him take the photo but didn't agree or expect him to post them all over social media.

Therein lies the case. Question:

IF he asked if he could send the picture to some mates. She said no. He said, what about about snapchat, she said no. He said, just to a few of the boys on snapchat. She says okay, but perhaps doesn't feel comfortable about even that.

Is there a case?

Yes there is a case. Consent isn't valid if the person is pressured or coerced into providing consent.
How much pressure is required to coerce?
If you say please, please please, is that coercion?

I'd argue it is.

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Re: Nude Premiership Medal Photo
« Reply #71 on: October 11, 2017, 03:08:36 PM »
The Kid whoever it is, is probably going through hell right about now. What i want to know is, did he at least drop the anchor.

hahahahahaha GOLD

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Re: Nude Premiership Medal Photo
« Reply #72 on: October 11, 2017, 05:38:04 PM »
She wants re$pect now?

Re$pect yourself.

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Re: Nude Premiership Medal Photo
« Reply #73 on: October 11, 2017, 06:19:40 PM »
wasn't there dunno what the truth is.  If it is legit, would be peeed off private kinky moments are supposed to be just that.  If it is a sneaky stitchup attempt, peeed off as well.  Not going to make assumptions because we know sweet FA.
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Re: Nude Premiership Medal Photo
« Reply #74 on: October 11, 2017, 06:22:00 PM »
What people are forgetting is the photo did not identify her. How can it be hurtful if nobody knows who she is????
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