Vows before god?
How do you know where he was married
Give me a spell on the religious rubbish in a football forum .. jeebus will be just fine
my point wasn’t a religious one, maybe read the whole of the opinion I made again but this time read it slowly. 
Then why say "Vows before God" if there is supposed to be no religious inference in your opinion?
You bought religion into it for reasons only you can explain / justify.
And then you throw in the comment "major deceptive betrayal" which is an assumption on your part as opposed to a known fact to suggest that somehow it is the reason for our season turning pear shape
Bottom line is no one on this site, in the media or anywhere else knows exactly what happened except for the parties involved.
Sure there has been a lot of speculation but none us of truly know happened and truth be known we don't need to
I reckon Gracie has summed it up very well indeed. Dimma's personal life has nothing to do with it. But I suppose it is a great out for some of our under performing players
I actually agree with all the points Gracie has made.
Why did I say “vows before God & family”?
To me this isn’t a question of religion or family because to me the vow he made was before God and family is as obvious as saying the rain falling from the sky is wet. So the mention of it wasn’t to make it about religion or family but to highlight the importance of the vows of marriage to society as a whole and the action of doing so is ultimately an agreement to the covenant made between one another. If not then why go through the motions in the first place?
The point I was actually making is obviously not as obvious to some people asking the question.
Let me be crystal clear;
I first premised the point by saying it’s never just
one thing that brings success to a team but a
myriad of many things combining together in a perfect way that brings ultimate success.
I made mention that Mrs Hardwick was the catalyst for the change (as Dimma has mentioned on numerous occasions) that helped him reevaluate his coaching style.
The point I made was that the
one decision by Dimma to leave his wife for a younger woman might just be the catalyst for our current predicament. I’m not discounting the myriad of other things that have contributed to it and I generally agree that they have all contributed, but my point was the possible catalyst for the house of cards falling as they have.
In regards to the “assumption”, as you put it, I made about the “major deceptive betrayal”.
Well the assumption is based on the reaction of Mrs Hardwick and others involved at the club so it’s not so much a complete speculation but rather a deduction based on available observed evidence.
But my “assumption”, while based by at least some empirical evidence is much more that your assumption in the same sentence, quote; “Dimma's personal life has nothing to do with it”
And how does anyone know that to be true, even on a subconscious level?
I don’t think we will know for sure unless we are told one way or another by every leader at the club.
All players are different and things effect players in different ways.
Some don’t want to be tied down to one person all their lives whilst others like to make a commitment to one person for the rest of their lives. I suppose it’s also on how much value you put on the institution of marriage, some players might hold it in very high esteem whilst others don’t think it’s a big deal and not even bother with it their entire lives.
But to say the problems this year “has nothing to do with it” is just an assumption on your part and an opinion.
Ps. I also made reference to Caroline Wilson being 100% correct about Hawthorn
