Whinging and naive reactions, that's what I'm hearing.
Damo - They probably only have room, and a license, for 300 people to attend. If you want your wife, and the next guy wants his wife, and the next guy wants his son, then soon you've only got room for 150 people that are going to donate. Anyway, if you're going to give $3,000, and then the club very reasonably points out that it is not possible, why don't you still give the $3,000? If not $3,000, then why not $1,000, or $500, or $100...no, you take your bat and ball and go home.
Popelord - what you're expecting in return is just not practical, and would take up a host of staff organising and implementing it. Be reasonable. Cotchin would be visiting multiple homes, for instance.