No one said you think it's funny because Tucky got hurt, we are saying you made a distasteful joke which made light of his situation. Whether it was your intention or not, it is what you did. I cannot believe you continue to defend what you said. Instead of admitting it was a joke in poor taste, you are trying to twist what people have said in response. You're moving away from what the point is, and you're doing it by insulting users.
If you are a man/woman of integrity like GoRicho says, just apologise and move on. No one will hold it against you and nor should they. Everyone says the wrong thing occasionally.
But back to Tucky, has anyone got an update on how he is feeling?